JoJo and Jordan’s Relationship Ups and Downs | Engaged

Published on Oct 9, 2018
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First comes reality TV, then comes engagement, then comes… real life! Jojo and Jordan fell in love in front of millions of viewers and now they’re letting you in on their day-to-day struggles, solutions, and fun along the way. They are navigating life on their own terms- together and engaged! New episodes every Tuesday at 10AM PST. #JoJordanEngaged
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  • What are some of your tips for maintaining a happy and healthy relationship?

    • Nozie MM I am so glad to hear that!! It took me a few years honestly. I would want to run away or hop in a car because I felt I would burst if I stayed, which he didn’t like either. So I told him if you want me to be calm in the disagreement give me some space to get there...that seemed to help, and he’s much better about giving it to me. Just remember if he does, it’s because you asked lol. We all develop habits in relationships...mine was run and he chase, but can’t ask him not to chase and then expect him to 😂. So it was a transition that eventually became a new/healthier habit!

    • +Courtney Richwine thank u for sharing Ur advice, I tend to walk away too because I'm an emotional person and I know my hubby hates it and actually just reading ur comment has helped me to think how I could improve myself better..so thank u so much xx

    • +Christie Lynn thank u so much for your comment, I am married for almost 3years now..and I'm learning to acknowledge all that u have said in your comment..us women want to be listened to, we want to feel loved and appreciated and we fight over that, whereas for my husband, what's important to him is respect and acknowledgement as a man and then sometimes it's like we reach a dead end because u both want different things and cannot manage to meet each other's needs.

    • Engaged with JoJo & Jordan thanks for sharing you guys! I’ve been with my S/O for 8 years and we definitely went through what you guys went through. We would always have arguments one after another and it was just not good. Trust played a big role in our relationship. We definitely did have that talk, b/c we’ve came to that point where we are getting older and wiser and should know what we want in life. Little advices to those who are still young: Know what’s important and what’s not. Don’t let the unimportant things be the cause of arguments. And always, always talk it out after an argument, even if it’s just over something really stupid. You can’t stay mad forever over something so small. && remember why you’re together in the first place. Put aside your pride and ego. And like they say, you have to love yourself first before you love someone.

    • Trust. Honesty. Communication. Friendship. Most importantly love & respect ❤

  • wow, I like how candid you guys are. Thank you for sharing these moments with the world!

  • Thank y’all for this. WOW, it beyond hits home and is very helpful.

  • What about when your trying to push your other half to be better and they take that as you think they aren’t trying their best?

  • JoJo & Jordan u guys are an amazing couple! And I can see you two lasting a lifetime because u guys are genuine! I wish u two the very best, keep striving for the best in your relationship and thank u so much for sharing your love story with us. Xxx

  • I love this! I love you guys! This was a really good episode! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • What are some good communication tips or habits you two have? Or any books or podcasts you listen to? My husband and I are the worst at communicating. I feel like we want to hear ourselves instead of hearing the other person and getting defensive in those hard conversations.

  • Jojo and Jordan, my two favourite people, thanks for this show, its really so amazing, real, fun, educating and has maturity! Love you two everyday

  • So lovely to hear you guys talk about that time...which I know is so hard. Especially when I know how that feels! And its nice to see not only your own relationship goes through this. Im glad mine recovered. And yours too! Glad you guys are happy. 😍

  • Verbally or emotionally *

  • I’m so glad you did this video and being so honest and raw about your relationship. You are helping so many people! Thank you so much for sharing this ❤️

  • thank you so much for being so real and honest

  • I really appreciate you guys for creating this show and being vulnerable with us. Its nice to know that every relationship has its kinks in them; especially a couple who has been on TV. My boyfriend and I have gone through the ups and downs like you guys have at the beginning of our relationship and we strive to work together to keep building upon our relationship till this day. Best 6 years of our life! Wouldn’t want to change anything that got us to where we are now in life together.

  • I love this series! It’s amazing to see how you really are and how your life really is! I’m so glad both of you found true love and persevered through the hard times ❤️

  • Please start vlogging! 💗

  • I love this honesty so much.

  • Absolutely LOVE your honesty and transparency. I do have a question/need advice on something that maybe you guys have faced in your relationship. My fiance' and I are engaged and have been for just over a year now. We met on the infamous... dun dun dun... TINDER! lol. A bit of our background: He was a commercial diver for the first few years of the relationship so we spent a great deal of time apart (he would travel on the road for a month at a time). Long distance was rough & definitely had its own challenges, but luckily we now live in southern California together and both work at a local hospital. One of our consistent "problems" is that we do not have the same love languages. I am a words of affirmation and touch person... while my partner is acts of service and quality time. I love the mushy cards and even the simple things like holding hands and he is not a "words" type of guy. While this may not sound like a huge "problem", it has been for us. I often feel like our love is fading or that my "love bucket" is not filled. When I express this to him... he says things like, but Babe... I cleaned your car today, brought you lunch... etc. While these things are incredibly sweet and thoughtful, I still would prefer a love note or a kiss. I don't want to sound like the needy one here... lol but I'm wondering if there is a way to improve this? How do we adjust to each others love languages/needs? Do you and Jordan have the same love languages? and if not, how do you adjust? Thanks for your time!!! -Sheri Loyd

  • Can we get a house tour please?

  • When do these episodes air?? like weekly??

  • the fact that they were able to stick together through so much and he was able to work through his pride and she was able to open herself to being hurt really says so much about their love and who they are individually.

  • What is your advice for working out a long distance relationship?

  • Are you guys similar in the hobbies you like to do & events you like to attend, etc? How do you guys decide what new things you should take on together and find things you both like? Also love watching this show!! 😍

  • I have been married for 24 years, but I still can relate to this. I think you are going to help so many couples. Good for you. Just do not be one of those couples who gives up. Relationships are not perfect; they are messy! Keep up the talking and never give up.

  • My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 months now and we are deeply into each other. But the one thing that bothers him is texting my guy friend that I have been friends with for 2 years. He’s the only friend I tell everything about but my bf thinks it’s gonna be the other way around. My friend has a girlfriend and there’s 0% chance we’ll hook up anytime soon. We have fought so many times about it and I’m over it. I’m just wanting your advice if my boyfriend trusts me enough? Also he has this girl friend that he’s been friends with since high school.. (he’s 24 now) and what makes me kinda not feel right is they usually hang out just them two. He tells me they’re not gonna get together at all because she’s not his type. But what bothers me the most is they both share their locations with one another. I’m really having a hard time coping with that and I just don’t know what to tell him 😪

  • My question for you two is how do you manage your schedules when Jordan is working on the weekends? Do you feel like he misses out on a lot of things? Or do y’all just plan dates and “together time” during the week?

  • What are some tips on becoming more open with new people? When you feel you are very guarded and have trouble letting people in? Thoughts? Also thank you so much for doing these videos. I'm a huge fan and so happy for you two. All the best :)

  • loved the authenticity! thank you so much for sharing your story! more couples should follow suit! If it is rainbows and butterflies all the time... something is wrong :P

  • my thing is when a argument occurs, use a pencil. give the pencil to the person who is talking so that they have time to get out their feelings and not be interuppeted. Then pass the pencil and give the other person a chance to talk about their feelings. No-one can speak unless they have the pencil. This gives a chance to get everything off of your chest, be understood and work it out.

  • For someone who just broke up with someone she really loved. How do you move on knowing that there is someone better out there for you? And how do you go about getting out there to meet people after being in a relationship for a long time?

  • My husband and I broke up twice (for very short time) before we married. Here we are 43 yrs later. We didn't live together, but after marriage, the first year was the toughest. Then it just gets better and better, because it is hard and takes time, but worth it.

  • I love u guys. Beautiful couple.❤️

  • Marriage is death by a thousand cuts! She will become a narcissistic nightmare!

  • her voice😫

  • Who cares?

  • I love this series! You two are the best! So on the first episode of the bachelorette when I seen Jordan I thought he was perfect for you! I love how open you two are being with your relationship:) it’s nice to know that it’s possible to get through the struggles of a new relationship without giving up! You guys are the best ❤️

  • Do you guys think he ever came in her mouth before?

  • Extremely lovely lesbian couple! 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈 #NewFan

  • Way to show the real side of relationships! Thank you

  • She should do porn.

  • DIOOOOOOO!!!!

  • I owe the fans of JoJo and Jordan an apology. I love hearing their honesty but when they talked about a reality show I was worried it wasn’t real but staged but I now know their sharing is real and they are doing a great job of helping others. I love their honesty!❤️

  • I bet she does A+ throat work

  • They’re still together? Uhhh someone needs to tell them it was a reality show.

  • why is he watching like that? just watching or scanning 😍

  • He way he look at her😍 they re just perfect for each other❤️

  • Love this so much !

  • love you guys

  • What’s your stand JoJo?

  • I'd like to know Jojo if you have dealt with feeling Jordan was ever emotionally not supportive and what you did? like how you talked about it?

  • "I hate seeing you cry."

  • Jeez the sure did a good one of part 5

  • I loved this so much. I think it shows how you went through struggles and came out stronger as a couple and as individuals. Loved how honest and raw you guys we’re ! Wish you guys the best xx

  • Witch joestar is this

  • Who are these people and why should I care about their relationship? One thing’s for sure, if they’re both attention-craving, conceited assholes like these videos imply, then I’m sure they’ll make it.

  • Who f-ing are these whiney ass millennials. This guy has to be in the closet. Lol

  • Copycat the lizy and dalas

  • What in the heck is Kin?

  • That guy is straight?

  • If you see this, I love you and I want to be us again. Please like this so my wife will see this message higher up in the comments.

  • I liked it when Kristen Wiig impersonated you 😭

  • thanks for sharing guys. I watched clips from your season many times as I love the energy between you two. it was really amazing and I hope to have a relationship like that someday. And thanks for saying don't fight for an abusive relationship. I did that for many years with a narcissist and I finally learned that narcissist cannot return love or give love and so I ended the relationship but I wasted a lot of years. However I always believe that it's never too late

  • Wow I love this!!

  • I’ve been in a relationship for 10 years with my high school sweet heart (not married yet), and we can definitely relate to feeling pressure from others to do what they want us to do. Thank you for sharing your story!! It’s refreshing to hear we all go through the same things.💜 Best of luck- always rooting for you guys!

  • Was Jordon ever jealous or upset the way you were with the other guys in the season ?

  • The second someone over comments on a word they said well uh that’s gonna be quick dislike for me bucko, chuckling ehehehhehe.

  • They still together! Yaaa

  • I love y’all so much for being so REAL!! Yes the show was glamorous and all, but y’all are showing us that you’re real and in a serious relationship. It’s so wonderful what your doing in making these videos. I am married and the thing we struggle with the most is communicating with each other in the moment. We seem to communicate, but it’s usually after the fact. We have two young boys, and we both work full time. So life is busy, and sometimes the communication falls off the tracks. Also, I like to talk about everything, so if it’s bothering me, or I think something is bothering my husband, I wanna talk about it. He is the opposite. He is really easy going, and always seems unphased. So, I am looking forward to these videos!! Love y’all 💕💕

  • Love how y’all match in your videos!

  • smh i thought this was part 5

  • I watched your season and have to say I was skeptical about Jordan but I am happy to see that I was totally wrong. You guys are beautiful together. Relationship are hard work (28 years in even), but communication is always key! Keep up the good work!

  • GUYS CHECK OUT MY UPCOMING VIRAL VIDEO, SHARE IT, SUPPORT AND SUBSCRIBE!!. XOXOXO

  • Is your name a J O J O R E F E R E N C E?

  • this is the whitest, straightest shit

  • This is great advice from a very young couple in a very young relationship. You said something that I just said about my husband of 36 years. He just passed away and I am heartbroken. However, I wrote something about him for the service titled "Thoughts on my Beloved." In it I shared just what you said JoJo, "this was not a fairy tale relationship". We had some very difficult challenges to get through but the reason we succeeded is that we always respected each other, never hit below the belt, and we constantly worked on improving our communication with each other. We were in it together and that is the key. You can't just have one person working on it. It has to be both of you who choose to move forward together. We got clean and sober together, we went through the loss of a child together, we have raised our grandchild together and more. We were opposites, he was morning, I was night, he was an introvert, I am an extrovert but we learned to love each other even with these differences and we were still falling more in love up to the end of his life. Marriage is hard work but it is so worth it so be willing to work and you will have a beautiful life together.

  • ugh the way he looks at her

  • I'm so glad to hear Jordan say he talked to someone and telling guys it's OK. Been with my husband 20 yrs we have def had our ups and downs. We def need to communicate better. Love y'all

  • Am going through a long distance relationship with my husband, its been a year now and it sucks

  • I stopped watching after your guys season was over 😭😭Anywaysss I wish you guys a pursuit of happiness!!!! Thank you for being vulnerable and open to us we love you guys!!!!

  • I like the walmart jojo better

  • I am so hooked your show! Y'all are my favorite couple from the Bachelor/Bachelorette! L O V E this!!

  • This video is trending!!! Congratulations!!!!! 🍾🎊🎈🎉♥️💕💛

  • This dude is gay 😂 No real man would do some shit like this.

  • O shit white ppl, when's the vacation to southeast Asia?

  • Wow!! You guys rock. I think many famous cuples i youtube are afraid of letting their flus in their relation ship be seen. Probably cuse they think wel think their gona brake up. And we dont think that at all. We know is normal. Your the first one i see takling this ishu. Thank you. Hope youtubers understand now.

  • You have definitely beat the odds by working on your relationship and realizing that The Bachelor dream dates and beautiful environments are not real life. It does take work & MANY kudos to Jordan for going to therapy. Any man I've been with has felt like they'd have to admit that something was wrong that they couldn't fix or handle by themselves if they went to a therapist. Definitely keep doing the work, especially before having kids, so you have the strongest foundation possible to start a family. Looking forward to more!

  • So good to watch you guys being real! And talking & explaining your relationship, Thankyou 👍❤️

  • I have been LOVING this new series for a few reasons: 1. you are my fave couple from the Bachelor because from the beginning I could see you were both real people that have jobs and are just so grounded. In watching this latest episode, i'm really impressed to hear that Jordan has been to therapy. I don't know if it's too personal, but i'd be interested to hear more details about that. I think you're helping normalize the idea of therapy, rather than having it be a vague weird thing for people with crazy trauma they have to work through. I think more people could benefit from it than we all want to admit.

  • You can tell the chick cheats

  • I love you guys so much! By far my favorite couple from the bachelor/bachelorette shows! Any advice on how to know if a guy actually likes me? Guys keep ghosting me after a few days...

  • Uhh this isn’t Jojo the singer tf

  • It’s great to see you guys are still making it work!

  • Having the courage to reveal the insecurities and struggles you have gone through as a couple and as an individual is a sign of strength and it is empowering to those who face similar challenges. Thank you so much for sharing! I saw something special between you from the moment you two met and followed your journey since. Hands down my favorite couple and will support you no matter what:)

  • Communication & sacrifice... the unfortunate news is that the odds are heavily against successful relationships. So good luck, you'll need it

  • Fuck you and your channel

  • I loved you guys on the show! So happy to see you are still going strong! I do want to add that I am in love with your throw pillows! Where did you get them? hehe :)

  • I'm surprised to see this video. I thought these two were faking it after the show. If they were in love, wouldn't they be married by now like all the rest of the bachelor people that fell in love? They are a cute couple. I hope it works out.

  • This guy kinda looks like Thomas from YesTheory from the sides.

  • Bravo 👏🏽 Namaste 🙏🏾

  • Can I just say I love you two so very much! You guys are so inspirational!!! I’ve been following you guys since the bachelorette and fell in love with you two. You are so real and I appreciate that. The way you two look at each other just melts my heart! Thank you for being a real life couple ❤️

  • It's a bizarre adventure for them